Dan,
"So ... Are all the folks born before Christ languishing in hell for all eternity?"
I really don't know. From what I understand, the Bible doesn't fully address this.
How about people born after Christ but never heard of Him? Or the millions of souls lost to abortion?
When people identify as Christian, they aren't claiming to know all the answers or to have a direct divine connection for every question. Faith often means trusting in God's justice and mercy, even when we don't fully understand or deserve it.
One thing seems clear to me though. Jesus came for some purpose. If everyone is the same in God's eyes, there would be no reason for the Gospel.
Some people who identify as Christian have experienced incredible, meaningful events in their lives. They were moments they describe as nearly miraculous and difficult to dismiss as imagination or coincidence.
I know I've had several extraordinary events in my life that go far beyond luck. They've strengthened my faith.
Sally...