"My question becomes, at this point, was VP Harris' name intentionally mispronounced by some as a deliberate attempt to tag her as an evil ~immigrant?~"
It took me a while to get her name right because of Kamala the Ugandan Headhunter.
It took me a minute to get Barack right because I have a friend with that name who pronounces it differently. Now he goes by the Presidential pronunciation. At first he used to assert his own pronunciation but it became pointless after a while.
"... people who might go with the grandparents or kids frankly find the topic of a guy talking about his boyfriend uncomfortable and for some down right digusting."
So go to some other show. You don't own Dolly. I'm sure neither she, nor the theater want your money if you have no self control and that even seeing a conversation about gay people on a stage can bring you to violence. Seriously, WTF is wrong with people?