Snoofy,
"Why would you do that, that's the part we really don't understand."
My parents split up when I was in Middle School. Couldn't live with my mom or my dad. Neither worked out.
No other relatives. No siblings or other relatives I knew.
My dad was Army all my childhood and we moved constantly so I had no stability. I dropped out of high school after 10th grade.
I turned 17 and had to get on my own. Mom was pretty messed up from the divorce and my dad couldn't relate to me so we had no relationship. After trying to live with him things began turning violent. Lost contact with him when I signed up.
Right after turning 17 I joined the Navy. My entrance exam qualified me for anything I wanted to do except nuclear.
After being assigned to a squadren (I had gone into avionics), while on a cruise I was spotted overseas coming out of a gay bar by men I worked in the same shop.
The military was about my only option I could see at the time so that's the reason I joined.
The specifics when I became sexually active is more detail than is anyone's business.
Perhaps this is all a show making us believe Trump and Musk are falling out.