to answer the question-
"Is he a good employee?" you don't ask the employee, you ask the boss
"Is he a good husband?" you don't ask the husband, you ask the wife
"Are they good parents?" you don't ask the parents, you ask the children
"Is your society fair and correct?" you don't ask yourself, you ask your inheritors, the descendants who will live in the society you create
If you intend to opt out of reproducing to perpetuate your society, choosing instead to live for the dopamine, there's no real investment in society. Narrow interests of hedonists are not relevant to society. Their end is regret.
abortion should be legal, but should require spaying at the same time.