The Grand Jury refused to return an indictment on Senators Elissa Slotkin (D- MI), and Mark Kelly (D-AZ), and Reps. Jason Crow (D-CO), Maggie Goodlander (D-NH), Chrissy Houlahan (D-PA), and Chris Deluzio (D- PA). The Congresspeople put out a video reminding members of the armed services they DO NOT HAVE TO follow an illegal command.
" Is getting your finger stinky rape?"
Unwanted, and unwarranted? According to New York State law, yes.
But your point, of course, was to minimize it. You know, blame the victim for overreacting.