"From homeless, destitute, penniless, no assets but the shirt on my back to made a difference because nobody else was going to do it for me."
Growing up, I heard that line again and again. My dad was the manager of an industrial canning manufacturer, which he left to become a realtor. The latter is self-employed.
He taught me how he had to put away money regularly, because nobody else was going to do it for him. It was excellent advice, especially for a kid who ended up making most of his money by being self-employed. At 29, I started saving. At 31, I became an aggressive saver. When I met the bride a decade later, I talked her into becoming an aggressive saver as well. When we paid off the house (13 yrs early), we doubled our twice-monthly savings.
Because of all that, she got to retire a little early, and I chose to work an extra 6 years, simply because I wanted to. That allowed us to take money out of taxable IRAs at a very low rate, and stuff it into our Roth IRAs. Now we'll bring in more money after taxes in retirement than we used to. take home when we both worked.
SAVING is the key. Starting young is the trick. Coverting to Roths when it's the cheapest is for the savviest.
"These people didn't pay for a dime of the resources we have"
Look up the term "sweat equity" and get back to us.
And remind us ... who gets the overpayments into the Social Security system???