Great analogy with the domestic abuse...
The wife lashing back out, probably warranted, and a feel good reaction. But did it improve her situation? No. The husband will just do worse, or he'll have her charged and she'll have been the aggressor that time. She probably should have left, or, or, etc...
So yes, the feel good action and the improve the situation aren't going to be the same.
Neither side of the Aisle is doing anything to improve the situation, and just keep upping the intensity of the divide between the two.
In the current time the Left is on it's heals, and you all cheer for their non helpful actions, because what aboutism.
and the cycle continues
Like the people fired for cheering on Kirk being shot, I applaud these people being fired.