I saw more numbers.

It's mostly females at a ratio about 2 to 1.

Women might be more interested in experimenting but it's a harder concept for young men to consider giving a friend a bj.

DB,

It was either + or etc.

Clown,

Ask around and you'll see a lot of girls have practiced kissing with another girl.

Boys? Nope. They don't.

That doesn't make them gay or bi.

Just saying girls would be more likely to experiment than boys.

Btw...Dan. Have you told your family you secretly long for a man?

You better act on it or the gay police will attack you for not being your true self.

Clown,

"There's no negative stigma associated with two girls kissing."

That is my point.

There is a stigma associated with 2 boys kissing. And it's not taught. It is a natural feeling we're born with. Most cultures throughout time with no contact have similar reactions. There are exceptions but what I've said has been the rule.

Some people would argue that's the whole point. The stigma should not exist for boys to kiss and be reprogrammed out of society.

Good luck with that.

Alex,

"--------. Link or stink."

You live in "men can have babies" culture so anything I post would be discounted.

Laura,

"Men kissing men is normal regardless of sexual orientation BillJohnson get over your self loathing bigotry."

You have your opinions about who I am but you don't really know me.

The truth is for me men kissing is lovely and natural. I have no issues with men kissing although I am aware a lot of straight people do.

Speak,

"If it's natural why do you fight against your nature and against the way god made you?"

You suggest I should leave my wife or cheat on my wife?

I actually like being married to her.

Being married to a woman conforms to my values and is the way God made me.

Speak,

Over the years I have learned there are a lot of married men in my situation who secretly meet up with men for sex.

Their wives are either unaware or in denial or turning a blind eye to their husband's lack of commitment to their marriage.

To be sure, it's a complicated situation for the man, the marriage and the wife.

My sort of marriage certainly requires complete openness and honesty. Being honest with yourself and with your spouse. I know exactly who I am. Unlike married men who have not been with men although they feel the desire, I have been with quite a few.

I experienced living among gays and gay relationships and have read enough to see that in many ways things have never changed. A major issue for me was that monogamy was and still is the exception for gay relationships although a lot of gay men long for it. I've seen how difficult it is when you're talking about 2 testosterone driven males. It takes a lot of discipline especially when you live in a culture what casual sex is flaunted.

I loved many men over the years during my youth and saw what that did to the older gays I knew who loved and lost again and again. They became disillusioned with the idea of long-term relationships and so many lived alone once the bloom of youth is gone.

I met a girl and fell in love and discovered the joy of straight sex.

This is the real me as much as being with men was.

Clown,

"Based on the majority of your posts, you suffer from severe mental illness"

And what possibly qualifies you to make that determination?

Personally, I believe people who make those kinds of statements have personality disorders.