but but but! Yav has a link!

Indeed I do. I also lived through it. As did Danforth. As have others who documented their understanding in those links. For instance:

It's actually a good, informative link. Try it, it won't kill you. And you might learn something.

I posted that link.
I reference that the author was summarily smacked down in the comments section and that you should read them.
But you said "Never read it, not going back to it" then you posted the same damn link.
But you didn't bother to read further.

"Congrats on embracing being lesbians"
I'm a gay man. I've been around a LOT of lesbians. LOTS. I've one of the gay men that also would go to lesbian bars because I had good lesbian friends that I'd hang with. I can lay out our culture, and how it works in a macro sense better than you could even imagine. Having said all that, I have no idea what your remark is even supposed to mean. It's just weird.

(you said that to Danforth who cited the link I provided long before you)

Even us Chinese immigrants know it doesn't stand for "Ally".

Your immigration managed to boost China's overall IQ while lowering the United States.
Xi thanks you.

#48 "Explain why he's wrong."
First, it's not a "he" - you can't even get that right.
Second - I'm not repeating myself. You didn't bother the first time or the second time.I gave you exactly how to find information out in the very link you posted. It's not hard. You go to the comments and read them. They are short. They say what I had said before I even found that link.

#49 - It takes no imagination for me to figure out what likely happened. There are militant homosexuals in our community, and I've had them scream in my face, that insist they control the narrative, who is in, who is out, who is a "good xxx" and who's a "bad xxx." They tend to be younger (than me, but not young) and don't have the history - but they are angry.

Finally, This is all I'm going to say on this. You don't get to tell me about my life experience, challenge me, and not bother reading anything I provided. Hell - you even posted the same link without knowing I already did it but couldn't read it, or even get the author's pronoun right. So there's no point to this.

BTW - on #49, researching that more deeply, it appears there was an intent (or at least the appearance of) trying to profit by using the status of "ally" to make a profit. That never goes well.

I don't honestly read most of the ---- you post unless it stands out as extraordinarily silly.

I rather enjoyed you making yourself out to be a fool with so little help on my part.

Hey, I just gave you the history as I lived it, and found others that lived and wrote about the same history. The entire argument is what it is, and what has been happening in the non-heteronormative community for decades. I already alluded to the GLAAD and PFLAG.

But you folks argue over whatever it is that you think matters, you know, you not being an actual part of the community. Knock yourselves out explaining to us that are in it what we should think. That is what MAGA is all about, anyway, isn't it?

I don't doubt Laura's research found the answer she got. There was no internet when this all started. When the internet started gaining, people hadn't even heard of "asexual." "Agender" Forget about that. That took YEARS to even become a "thing. It didn't even get a dictionary entry until 2015, ferchrissakes.

I related my memory of this. That was it. But arrogant straight ----- think they know more and keep telling me I'm wrong. I just have to laugh at how genuinely stupid, arrogant, and pathetic you sound. Seriously, you want me to say what I knew all these years was wrong when I lived it?

Well then, OK! Sure! LMAO!

Idiots.

Knowledge takes the willingness to work.
You don't have either.

You gotta TLDR version?

Knowledge takes the willingness to work.
You don't have either.