Josseli Barnica grieved the news as she lay in a Houston hospital bed on Sept. 3, 2021: The sibling she'd dreamt of giving her daughter would not survive this pregnancy. The fetus was on the verge of coming out, its head pressed against her dilated cervix; she was 17 weeks pregnant and a miscarriage was "in progress," doctors noted in hospital records. At that point, they should have offered to speed up the delivery or empty her uterus to stave off a deadly infection, more than a dozen medical experts told ProPublica. For 40 hours, the anguished 28-year-old mother prayed for doctors to help her get home to her daughter; all the while, her uterus remained exposed to bacteria. Three days after she delivered, Barnica died of an infection.
"Texas Woman Died After the Hospital Said It Would be a "Crime" to Intervene in Her Miscarriage"
This is exactly the kind of tragedy that Michelle Obama spoke about recently in Michagan:
singjupost.com
If you and your partner are expecting a child, you will be right by her side at the checkup, terrified if her blood pressure is too high or if there's an issue with the placenta or if the ultrasound shows that the embryo was implanted in the wrong place and the doctors aren't sure that they can intervene to keep the woman you love safe. If your wife is shivering and bleeding on the operating room table during a routine delivery gone bad, her pressure dropping as she loses more and more blood or some unforeseen infection spreads and her doctors aren't sure if they can act, you will be the one praying that it's not too late. You will be the one pleading for somebody, anybody, to do something. And then there is the tragic but very real possibility that in the worst case scenario, you just might be the one holding flowers at the funeral. You might be the one left to raise your children alone.
See, these are just some of the ways women die during childbirth. And I don't want to be a downer, y'all. But in many cases, there is no warning and things go bad very quickly. And when it happens, every second of hesitation or delay can lead to devastating outcomes. So I am asking y'all from the core of my being to take our lives seriously. Please do not put our lives in the hands of politicians, mostly men who have no clue or do not care about what we as women are going through, who don't fully grasp the broad-reaching health implications that their misguided policies will have on our health outcomes.
#9 | Posted by Bluewaffles
When Obama had a super majority in the Senate, Roe v. Wade was the law of the land.
Why was there the need to "legalize" abortion when it was already legal?
How many women have to die before men like Bellringer take this issue and the desperation of real women seriously? From a thread the other day "Michelle Obama Pleads in MI: 'Take Our Lives Seriously':"
This reeks of desperation.
Hey, Michelle.
Your hubby tried the guilt ga,e and it fell flat. You're no5 going to fare any better.
#4 | Posted by BellRinger
drudge.com
"You guys had the opportunity to put it into law and you chose not to ..."
#18 | Posted by Bluewaffles
It was law. A little thing known as stare decisis.
That every single Justice appointed by Bush (Sr & Jr) and Trump promised to honor
They lied.
"It's deplorable how the medical profession has made the decision to withhold medically necessary and completely legal treatment to make political points."
#24 | Posted by visitor_
That's by design...
...by the so-called "right-to-life" people who want medical professionals afraid to provide medically necessary treatment for fear of losing their medical license, or even go to prison.
Congratulations.
It is working.
Oh, and Happy Anniversary ! ! !
"I have zero respect for any man who does not fully support women and their rights to reproductive care." -
#25 | Posted by truthhurts | Flag: Bravo, truthhurts, BRAVO
"For those paying attention, stories like the above are why "abortion" care is necessary at all times of a pregnancy - beginning to end." -
#51 | Posted by TonyRoma | Flag: Tony is 100% correct! see also: The Absolute Truth About Abortion
#57 | Posted by robson at 2024-10-30 11:30 AM | Reply | Flag: A keen understanding, or something else?
#70 | Posted by lfthndthrds
Isn't it time for you to change your underwear?
I'm just trying to be helpful.
You're welcome.
"Personally I feel like abortion, up to a certain point in pregnancy. should be legal."
#75 | Posted by lfthndthrds | Flag: Helpful?
"Is this your way of telling me you're tired of me ----------- you? -
#78 | Posted by Posted by lfthndthrds
So-called ----------- is the forte of the right and "religious".
At least that's what your mom says.
You're welcome.
"Are you referencing the instance where the woman (late in term) took a handful of pills to kill her baby?" -
#87 | Posted by lfthndthrds
A woman's desperation: It is what women haters, like lfthndthrds and BILLJOHNSON, long for.
They dream about it and wake up in the morning in a tented position.
That's how much they hate women and love to see them in desperation.
"Abortion was being used in this culture as birth control and it's disgusting to me.."
#106 | Posted by lfthndthrds
So what?
"They settled on a back door, handshake deal instead."
#127 | Posted by lfthndthrds
Roe v. Wade, decided in 1973, was a "back door, handshake deal"?
Can anyone explain that?
a 49 year old scotus ruling is the opposite of a "back door" its as front door as it gets. 6 "justices" lying about stare decisis to get in and kill roe is as back door as you can get. underhanded, unpopular weasel crap thats gonna cost you guys an election." -One of the best posts I've read recently.
#131 | Posted by Alexandrite
Thank you, Alexandrite.
"...a short cut ..." -
#136 | Posted by lfthndthrds
Just how is a SCOTUS decision in 1973 a "short cut"?
Can anyone explain that?
"Even just the fact you people are trying to justify putting a man in woman's sports is sickening." -
#146 | Posted by boaz
Men in women's sports?
What's the matter, boaz, you don't like the competition?
They were afraid of jail time and losing their license.
It wasn't a "political statement" you idiot.
"...the Democrat Party?"
#166 | Posted by visitor_
There is no such thing.
visitor_: Go ahead, tell them everything you know. It'll only take 10 seconds.
"BTW, OBGYNs are fleeing TX as fast as they can." -
#162 | Posted by AmericanUnity
And what's fun about that is that OBGYNs generally have the wherewithal to actually move to a different state (other than Texas), and with their skillset, they would be welcomed most anywhere else.
Trump Abortion Ban?
The title is super weird. It's cringy. Drunkle cringy.
Trump implemented this???
"No such thing happened." -
#208 | Posted by lfthndthrds
That's not what the doctor says.
We're all concerned for you, brother.
"He's about to deliver a turd ..."
#211 | Posted by lfthndthrds
Deliver a turd?
Isn't that a day of celebration at the lfthndthrds family?
How Many People Cheat on Their Significant Other in the United States?worldpopulationreview.com
There are surveys that have been conducted on infidelity in the United States. Approximately half of people in married relationships cheat at least one time during the course of the marriage. Close to three-quarters of men and more than two-thirds of women admit that they would sleep with someone else if it was guaranteed that they would never get caught. In addition, the majority of affairs start with close friends or co-workers. It is unusual for a one-night stand to be the cause of infidelity in a marriage. In addition, once an affair begins, it lasts an average of two years. Finally, if the affair is discovered, close to 2/3 of marriages will end immediately because of the affair.
Which Countries Have the Highest Rates of Infidelity?
There are several countries in which cheating is relatively common. Thailand is an outlier, but it is also at the top of the list. More than half of people in Thailand who are married admit to committing infidelity at least once during the course of the marriage. Then, infidelity is relatively common in Europe. In some situations, there might be relationships where people are allowed to sleep with other people outside of the marriage. In Denmark, close to 46 percent of people admit to sleeping with someone outside of the marriage. Germany and Italy are not far behind, where 45 percent of people who are married in both of these countries admit to committing infidelity. Belgium, Norway, and France also have infidelity rates that are 40 percent or higher.
Is Infidelity Always Seen as a Universal Wrong?
It may come as a surprise to some people that infidelity is not always seen as a universal wrong. There are some people who believe that sleeping with people outside of the marriage might be important for keeping things interesting or fun, or getting people to appreciate their partners a bit more. For example, less than half of people in France and Finland believe that cheating is always wrong. There are several other European countries that are not far behind these two. Therefore, it should come as no surprise that cheating is also more common in European countries when compared to other places across the globe. Different places look at infidelity in different ways, which contributes to different infidelity rates.
Eberly, you're assuming I was promiscuous. That I didn't know the people that I ended up having physical relationships with (some once because they really just wanted to know, and others for decades). To this day I still talk to some of them. I even know some of their wives.
You have a peculiar black or white perspective you keep insisting on pushing on this discussion. Life isn't that way. There are sexless marriages. There are wives that are happy their husband has an outlet and that outlet won't be any competition.
America's views (though this is an AEI analysis):
Roughly two-thirds (66 percent) of Americans say that when a man has an affair it is always morally wrong. Fewer Americans (55 percent) say it is always morally wrong when a woman has an extramarital affair.
Interesting. What else?
Roughly equal numbers of Americans say it is always or often morally wrong for a young woman (33 percent) or a young man (35 percent) to have sex before getting married.
Always or "often"? What if you never get married? That's one stupid 1/3 of Americans. Same ones putting the numbers in the top line so high I bet.
And this is from the American Enterprise Institute (AEI)! LMAO!
www.americansurveycenter.org
I was narrowing my number to the US. Not Europe, or the North Pole. Is Yav trolling for married men in France?
But if 99% is overstating it....fine. pick your own number unless you can source one.
#308 | Posted by eberly
when it comes to views of marital infidelity men and women have very different responses. Surveys have consistently found that most Americans find marital infidelity morally objectionable. Yet, American attitudes are more complex than they first appear. Public attitudes about the morality of infidelity are conditioned on whether it is committed by a man or a woman. Roughly two-thirds (66 percent) of Americans say that when a man has an affair it is always morally wrong. Fewer Americans (55 percent) say it is always morally wrong when a woman has an extramarital affair.www.americansurveycenter.org
Both women and men exhibit a double standard in evaluating the morality of extramarital affairs, although this is somewhat larger among women. Seventy percent of women say that a married man who has an affair is always morally wrong, while fewer (56 percent) say the same when married women have relationships outside their marriage. Gender plays a more modest role among men in how they judge the morality of marital infidelity. Fifty-three percent of men say it is always morally wrong for a woman to have an affair, while 61 percent say same for men.
The extent to which women judge the behavior of married women and men varies significantly by race. There is a massive gap in the views of Hispanic men and women. Nearly three-quarters (73 percent) of Hispanic women believe that a man having an affair is always wrong, while slightly more than half (53 percent) of Hispanic men agree. Conversely, black women assess the morality of marital infidelity about equally whether it is committed by a man or woman (65% vs. 63 %)
Differences also emerge by educational attainment. No group of women is more forgiving of marital infidelity than those with post-graduate degrees. Less than half (45 percent) of women who have an advanced degree say it is always wrong when women commit adultery. In contrast, 61 percent of women with no more than a high school education say this is morally wrong regardless of the circumstances.
There is a notable age gap as well. Nearly three-quarters (73 percent) of young women say it is always morally wrong for a man to have an affair, while only about half (51 percent) say the same for a woman. The double standard among older women is not nearly as large. Sixty-nine percent of senior women say it always wrong for a married man to have an affair while six in ten say it is always wrong when a woman does.
These findings do not contradict previous research that has identified a double standard in how American society views women's sexuality, but they do suggest that our moral judgments are often conditional in ways we might not always predict.
What's worse, married man cheats on wife with another woman, or cheats on his wife with another man?
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