Dan,
"You literally told Laura you wouldn't be seeing her in the afterlife."
That was rather abrupt of me to say, and I would be interested in the rest of the context. How much was Laura attacking me?
However, was that really saying I think I am better than Laura?
As I've said over and over, "I'm not better, just forgiven."
I have plenty that needs forgiven.
Pride is an easy hole to fall into.
Paul, in the New Testament, wrote that he was given a "thorn in the flesh" to keep him from becoming proud.
For me, since the 80s, that thorn has been an extremely painful dry eye condition that has made me dependent on the understanding and accommodations of employers and other people for much of my adult life.
It's hard to feel superior when you're constantly reminded of your own weaknesses and limitations.
No, I don't think I'm better than other people, contrary to what some people here believe.